The best way to remote-access a Mac from an iPad (including the new iPad Pro) is to use a free program called Google Chrome Remote. With Google Chrome Remote you can remotely use Mac OS X programs ...

Another secure approach is to use an ssh tunnel for screen sharing. Do-able, but a bit of setup work. Using SSH port forwarding and VNC you can connect to your remote desktop using the Screen Sharing ...

Even with Back to My Mac's demise, there are other ways to remotely access and control your Mac from an iPhone and iPad. Some options are easier to use than others, and each varies in its purpose ...